Make dating fun and exciting again… so it leads to true love.
Sound familiar?
Ooh! A new match messaged you first! You open it: “Hey.” You wait a few moments to see if more typing bubbles show up… maybe…? … are you kidding me?... NOPE. UGH.
Being on social media is a nightmare for you because people are getting engaged and married left and right, and you’re home alone on yet another Friday night. Maybe it’s just too late for you and you’re really, truly going to be single and lonely forever.
The worst has happened… again. You thought you were doing everything right, but you just got dumped again. After a good long cry, you can’t even bring yourself to get back on Hinge, because you’ve lost hope that you’ll ever find love that actually lasts.
How does this sound instead?
Imagine opening up Hinge, seeing handsome men looking for commitment who seem successful and interesting, and feeling excited about the prospect of meeting them! You used to wear out that X button, but now you’re confidently sending guys likes and sweet messages.
Or you’re getting ready for a third date with a kind and confident guy you’re actually really excited about! The first two dates were lighthearted, romantic, and fun, and you just know he’s going to sweep you off your feet… again.
Picture the next family gathering, where you finally get to bring a hot, charming date that you just know everyone is going to love! No more side-eye or raised eyebrows from your married cousins, and especially no more of your own secret embarrassment that you’re dating another man-child who has no future.
I already know your answer… it sounds AWESOME, right? (Sounds awesome to me!)
That awesome dating and love life is in your hands.
I’ll show you how to grab hold of it with a comprehensive coaching program specifically tailored for women like you who are tired of dating the same men over and over and not finding love…
Date Smart, Find Love
A 1:1 coaching program to help you:
Understand why you keep finding – and falling for – the wrong men
Make dating apps work for you instead of frustrate you
Date confidently and efficiently so you can happily fall in love
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Video sessions are conducted over Google Meet
In-person sessions available in the Portland, OR / Vancouver, WA area
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1 email and up to 3 text messages between each session**
*Scheduling or logistics communication does not count as support
**Subject to modification if necessary
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Including but not limited to: articles, worksheets, pamphlets/e-booklets, customized resource lists
Phase 1 – What Does True Love Mean to You?
Modern generations of women are more confused than ever about what makes truly lasting, happy, fulfilling relationships. Before we go looking for true love, we should know what it really means, not just for now, but for happily ever after. (C’mon, I had to.)
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We’ll look at your past relationships and figure out what went wrong – and what went right.
Then we’ll explore what you’re looking for in a man, how you’re going about finding it, and examine how your thinking might actually be dead-ending your dating efforts.
We’ll do some guided imagination work on what a successful relationship actually looks like for you, considering where you are in life and what you want for your future. (Spoiler: the answer may surprise you!)
Result: Once we’ve got a vision in place of your dream man and your dream relationship, we’re ready to dive into everyone’s favorite: DATING APPS.
Phase 2 – Elevate Your Profile and Dating App Game
How much work do you put into your profile? Do you feel confident that it represents you and makes you stand out to the right type of man? Having a polished dating profile and knowing how to make dating apps work for you, not against you, puts you way ahead of the game. Let’s make sure you’ve got it in the bag.
Actions:
We’ll do an intensive audit of your dating profile and go over your current filtering and selection process of your potential matches.
You’ll learn exactly what mistakes women make that attract the wrong guy every time, and what approach will ensure that you no longer want to scream and throw your phone across the room as you’re swiping on the app.
Using your dream relationship vision, we’ll strategize ways to have conversations with guys that actually feel engaging and flirtatious instead of like pulling teeth.
Result: You’ll know how to move from app to a quality first date in one week — or less.
Phase 3 – The First 3 Dates
Believe it or not, you should only need 3 dates to know whether or not you should give a relationship a real, earnest try. (Hint: you should believe it.)
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We’ll explore how the first few dates have gone for you in the past and really zone in on why you keep jumping headfirst into toxic relationships or ending up in ambiguous situationships.
You’ll learn subtle ways to get men to show you who they really are within a week of meeting them, so you don’t waste any time on a guy who’s not right for you.
Result: Instead of dreading first and second dates, you’ll finally feel excited and interested and – best of all – have those butterflies again!
Phase 4 – Do I Commit?
Now that you’re rocking the first 3 dates and expertly filtering out guys who are wrong for you, you’ll land on a man who’s strong, handsome, thrilling, and very into you.
Actions:
We’ll really pay attention to any old habits that might rear their ugly heads right about now and find strategies to keep you on the right track of thinking with your head and your heart, like instead of excusing his lack of initiative by telling yourself how much you love taking care of people, you’ll be able to see it as a red flag and say goodbye to him.
We’ll address any fears that may come up about taking the next step in a relationship and tackle overcoming those fears head on.
Result: You can relax, let go… and fall in love!